Today, we are going to discuss tips to get girls to chat with you.

There are specific tips to encourage girls to chat with you! If a girl isn’t responding, it could be because you’re not using the right approach. With the right approach, anything is possible.

Now, let’s take a look at some tips to help you get girls to chat with you!

First: Mystery

Mystery can arouse other people's curiosity and desire to explore. When she is curious about you, she will pay more attention to you. If you tease her and interact with her, her desire to explore you will be stronger.

    
         1，Only by continuously making changes for women can women continue to be attracted to you. The right approach is to neither let women know nothing about you nor everything about you. As you make various changes for women and often surprise them, their sense of mystery about you will not gradually decrease but increase. Women will look at you with admiration from time to time, which will become the rhythm of their being attracted to you.

        2，When chatting with women, be careful to observe their expressions. If you talk about topics that women are not interested in, it's best to change the topic. Until you find a topic that women are interested in. The more interested women are, the more you need to hold back. Women are very likely to be obsessed with it. However, to avoid making women angry, when women ask you about it, you should talk about it slowly.

        3，Don't be too close to women, nor too distant. Instead, try to be close sometimes and far sometimes. In this way, you and women can maintain freshness, and you can take the opportunity to show your strengths and avoid your weaknesses. The most important thing is to let women know only three-tenths of your strengths and keep the remaining seven-tenths confidential for the time being. Mystery and freshness will complement each other.

Second:
Humorous and Interesting

    
         “All beautiful skins are alike, but interesting souls are one in a million.” This sentence is not baseless, which is enough to prove the importance of being interesting. If she feels that chatting with you is boring and uninteresting , she will soon lose interest in you.

        Every time you chat, it is best to have some small stories. Because stories will make people feel involved and more engaged. Stories can bring emotional experiences and make your chat not boring. Stories can be fake . Just like when we read novels, the content of the novel is fake, but it can bring emotional experiences. As long as your story is good enough and makes people experience emotional experiences, your story will be popular.

Third: Appearance

    
        Although good-looking skins are all alike, it is still very important. If a girl wants to stay away from you and hide from you when she sees you, how can she discover your interesting soul? And many girls are also very “superficial”. They don't need someone to be interesting; just good-looking is enough. This is enough to prove the importance of appearance.

        Some boys may be dejected and say that they are not handsome after seeing this. (Smile knowingly.) In fact, don't worry, because girls may have some misunderstandings about the word “handsome”. The actual situation is that you don't need to be extremely good-looking, but you need to be stylish enough. Speaking of “stylish”, clothing and hairstyle are very important. Go get a hairstyle that suits your face shape. Find friends who know how to help you and pick out a few sets of clothes that make you look handsome. Then buy a bottle of facial cleanser and use it to remove the oil and acne on your face. When you are free, apply a facial mask to maintain it. I suggest you shave your beard. Of course, if you have a beard that looks very manly and stylish, you can also not shave it, but pay attention to trim it often. Finally, keep yourself clean and tidy. Remember, this is very important. No girl likes a sloppy boy.

Fourth:
Pay Attention to the Quality of Chat

    
        Don't talk about those unnutritious topics. At first, you can talk about topics that girls are interested in, and then you can talk about topics that can penetrate deep into girls' hearts. For unnutritious topics, girls may reply to you out of politeness at first, but later they will wear out their patience and will no longer pay attention to you. And even if you talk about unnutritious topics all day long, it's not as good as a half-hour high-quality chat. This will allow you to get a lot of information from girls, and more importantly, girls' feelings, thoughts, and worldviews.

Fifth:
Learn to Interrupt the Chat

    
        1，Never overly satisfy others' emotions. Sudden endings leave you dissatisfied. People leaving chats when bored is a bad habit making you unattractive. Over-satisfying ruins relationships. People judge your feelings by your end state. They're result-oriented. When chatting, it's hard to stop during fun but necessary. High-value exits are unnatural but effective and need practice. Chat on WeChat for 30-40 minutes and stop. At first, do it two or three times. When you stop happily, girls will find you. Resume chatting for a while and stop again. Repeat to make girls seek you actively.
                        
        2. When chatting, be the one who takes the initiative to end the topic. Because when you do this, you won't feel needy when you reopen the topic. Never be the one whose topic is ended by a woman. For example, if a woman says, "I have something else to do, so let's not talk anymore." Then if you go to see her a few days later, it shows that you have a strong sense of need. Express that you are a very sociable person. For example, when leaving, say, "I'm going to meet my friend XXX later. We'll talk again when I'm free." If a woman says to you: Do many girls like you? You should say: Yes, but I don't like to be with them... Don't let women think that you are not very sociable or unpopular with women.   

     3， When the atmosphere is good, interrupt the chat. This can give girls a feeling of wanting more.
It's like watching a TV series, a martial arts drama, two heroes are competing in martial arts, the swords are already drawn, and suddenly the commercials come on. So annoying!
Just like a cat's paw is annoying, she will want to chat with you. Not only that, there are other benefits. For example:
（1）Show that you are a person with your own life.
（2）Don't expose your needs.
（3）You can continue the previous topic the n

Sixth:
Routine

The previous ones are all considered skills, this one is a bit routine, but appropriate routines in love are conducive to the development of feelings.

        1，Let her know that there is a girl who is pursuing you openly or secretly, and she is a very good girl.
At this time, the girl will think that such an excellent girl is pursuing you, so you must be very good and have outstanding qualities. For a good man, who is beside her and has a good chat with her, how can she not want to catch you!
However, remember, the routine is learned by you, but the heart that loves her must be sincere. Girls are not fools, and it is difficult to pursue her without a sincere heart.
                        
        2，Only "ambiguous", not proactive
When you meet her in the early stage, you can express your love to her directly, but don't be too direct, just express your appreciation and love. For example, you just met at a friend's party. You can say this.
"You are dressed so beautifully today. Any boy who can chase you will be so happy." Just express your admiration, but don't say that you like her.
After the end, don't contact her online, but you can leave a message on her dynamics, but never take the initiative to chat with her. Don't take the initiative here, otherwise it will expose your need.
At this time, she must unconsciously think, does he like me? You should pay attention that as long as the girl starts to think about you in this way, you have occupied a certain position in his heart.   

     3，Keep some hidden secrets and leave some holes intentionally. For example, when introducing yourself, you can say that you experienced some pain when you were a child, so you have some different views on love from other boys. At this time, the girl asks you: What are your differences? Tell me. You can say: We are not familiar with each other yet, I don’t want too many people to know for the time being, I will tell you when it is convenient in the future. When we are familiar with each other, you can take the initiative to ask me, and maybe I will be willing to tell you. You can leave a lot of mysteries like this, and she will want to solve such a mystery.
It’s like a magic trick. It will be boring when the magic is exposed. When you watch a magic show, the best stage of the experience is when you are amazed by the magic effect.

Seventh:
Encouragement

    
        When she takes the initiative to you, you should encourage her behavior. Give her happy and joyful emotions, or even reward her. This is a recognition of her proactive behavior, and she will become more proactive after receiving your emotions.        
        Remember this "encouragement". If you are indifferent or act very cold, then she will not be interested in taking the initiative to you.
Just like when you are rejected by a girl, you will be very hit, and many people just give up. It is very difficult to muster up the courage again, especially for girls, who are generally very reserved.

Finally, let's summarize. If you want girls to take the initiative to chat with you, you must learn to maintain your mystery, dress yourself up to improve your image and connotation; be humorous, learn to interrupt the chat, and improve the quality of the chat; you must also understand some routines, but more importantly, be sincere, and finally encourage girls to take the initiative to you.

When you learn these, in fact, girls will not only take the initiative to chat with you, but may also take the initiative to pursue you!